There are a wide range of ways of practicing mindfulness and I will share some of these mindfulness exercises with you, but the key thing I want you to take on board is to just do it – and keep doing it!
Your mind (and your ego) will resist and you will want to become more informed about it and will want to read yet another book on mindfulness.
The human mind loves to make this simple thing so complicated – yet mindfulness is called a practice for a good reason!
You mind will get bored and want to be entertained, distracted and engaged. That’s what minds do, and that’s why they are sometimes referred to as “monkey minds”.
If you want to learn mindfulness exercises – just be mindful – focus your attention, focus your mind, 100% on whatever it is that you are doing right now – in this present moment.
Mindfulness exercises can be divided into:
Typical activity-based mindfulness practices include:
Typical observational mindfulness exercises include:
In my own experience, there is a great benefit in undertaking some of these mindfulness exercises with others people who are doing the same practice. This might be just one other person or as part of wider practice group.
There is a stronger energy to the activity if is undertaken with others and this can be very encouraging and helpful in your own practice of mindfulness.
However, the real work is done on your own and this largely falls into two categories:
(1) Formal practice– this is where you apply regular focused attention to one or two mindfulness exercises at a time, until you have mastered them, and they have become habits. As with the acquisition of any new skill, this requires self discipline, persistence and consistence:
“Just be mindful – focus your attention, focus your mind, 100% on whatever it is that you are doing right now – in this present moment.”
(2) Integration practice– this is when you take your newly acquired mindfulness skills and apply them at different times of the day.
This may be a “situation specific” practice when for example you get into a frequently occurring situation such as heavy traffic, or an interaction with a partner or work colleague who irritates you.
Applying mindfulness in relationship situations can be very instructive and very powerful, and over time can change negative and destructive aspects of some relationships.
The other type of integration practice I use is what I refer to as “state specific” – this is where I mindfully monitor my internal states throughout the day.
This practice is very instructive as I used to find it quite surprising to see just how repetitive my thought patterns and emotional states actually are. Then, applying mindfulness to the negative states helped me (and still helps me) to become “unstuck” or unidentified with them quite quickly.
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